U3 The Truth Abt Lying

U3 The Truth Abt Lying的思维导图，内容有Social Lies、Peace-Keeping Lies、Trust-keeping Lies、Protective Lies.

The Truth Abt Lying

• Social Lies
  • acceptable&necessary
  • without: short,brutish,nasty relationship
  • examples
    • hairdo
    • hideous present
    • homely kids
  • the man: destroy credibiliy
  • author's friend:morally wrong
• Peace-Keeping Lies
  • avoid irritation/argument
  • author:wrong,crowd,dodge respons,guilty
  • examples
    • late for date: traffic jam
    • froget to call friend:busy line
    • forget dad's birthday:delayed present
    • dont want to visit ur mum
    • lies on subject of $
  • Laura: keep peacekeeping lies
• Trust-keeping Lies
  • involve triangulation
  • example
    • Fran: dont want to know friends' affair
    • the terriblt sticky
    • author's friend: stuck with telling truth
  • conclusion
    • the truth always better
• Protective Lies
  • lie to those loved breaking the trust is justified
  • examples
    • money/marital matters
    • stsate of health
    • utterly devastating
  • playing God
    • manipulation&control
  • conclusion
    • must nonetheless ba told